LOVE

I LOVE, I LOVE, I LOVE... ALL I FEEL IS LOVE... WHAT A GRAND FEELING INDEED!

P.S. I LOVE A.D. MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY... I CAN'T EXPLAIN IT, I'M JUST HAPPY FOR HER, AND WILL CONTINUE TO LOVE HER DAY IN AND DAY OUT, IN MY PRESENCE, IN HER ABSENCE, I LOVE HER COMPLETELY, ENTIRELY, AND WITHOUT STRINGS, WHAT SO EVER! I LOVE HER FOR ALL THAT SHE IS AND ALL THAT SHE IS NOT... EQUALLY IMPORTANT... SHE IS PURE, AND SO IS MY ABUNDANT LOVE FOR HER! AND I KNOW THAT SHE LOVES ME TOO... I SHALL SEE YOU IN BED, MS. AD!

LOVE... AND MORE

I LOVE MY GIRL... MORE THAN I EVER KNEW POSSIBLE... SHE IS MY SUNSHINE AND MY RAIN... BUT EVERYTHING I COULD EVER WANT AND MORE...

The Open Highway

The omniscient “they” say that people come into our lives for a “season, reason or a lifetime”, and for the most part, I have found this to be very true. Perhaps the difficulty lies in deciphering which place each individual holds in our realm. There have been times that I have mistakenly thought that a particular friend was surely a lifetime pal, only, in retrospect , to discover that s/he was merely around for a season, maybe even a reason, but his or her absence negates the possibility of a lifetime.
Sometimes it’s hard to just let go, reasoning within the deep recesses of my mind, that there might still be further reasons or seasons, maybe even that a lifetime is not yet lost. I coddle myself at times, I see, because I don’t want to believe that it is some fault of my own that this has been lost. At other times, I rationalize that there was no real “love lost” anyway, as I bring to mind trails of deceit, usury and betrayal. And while all of this may be true, it is the lack of closure that has me to even ponder any of this at all.
I may not know if you were a reason or a season, and I keep in mind it may differ for us both. For I can see how a season for me, may be a reason for you, and vice versa. Sometimes it is not entirely clear what that reason may have been (especially if it is not my own), nor why a particular season has come to a close…. And then…
Again, as “they say… hindsight is always 20/20”, and it is often during this retrospective phase, that I can see clearly how this “friend” could have never lasted a lifetime, (and if I can get real quiet and still within myself, these are the “friends” whom I always somehow knew were only around for a bit). Perhaps I hear of the slanderous, spiteful remarks made by the one time buddy, and realize that s/he could have never cared as so professed. Or maybe we pass on the open highway, and I only receive a cold, closing window, rather than a nod or wave of amicable recognition. Even still, s/he was once someone whom I considered to be a friend, someone I spent time with and entrusted with personal information. So, I let it go, I move on… forgive and forget… remembering that there was still a reason, season or perhaps even both, for which that person entered, and thus, exited my life.

Labor of Love

WAKING UP SOBER…

…many days in a row now, nearly a month even, feels surprisingly and refreshingly wonderful. Moments of boredom or frustration tantalize with the old story of “just a few won’t hurt”, then I bring to mind the many events, too many to name, that have begun this journey of sobriety. I sometimes literally shake it off, out of my head, then distract myself with something positive, and am ultimately happy that I have forgone yet another craving/temptation.

Waking up sober…
…means waking up to a full memory of the night’s events, perhaps UNevents, even still, so nice. For a while now, I’ve been choosing stability and tranquil over unpredictable craziness, so it only makes sense that sobriety would eventually follow suit. What a wonderful feeling to know that I have pissed no one off in some drunken tantrum, and the friends I have today will be there tomorrow. To recall that I have not used words to hurt those I truly care for… to know I have disrespected no one, including myself.

Waking up sober…
…is still a daily choice… a process started without any guarantees or foresight into probable success. What I keep in the forefront of my mind is all the above positive, which proves to reinforce my steps and guide me, day in and day out. Knowing that I set forth on this path not alone steadies me when I feel shaken… Thanks are to God and those who have had faith enough to see me through the rough spots, and who can now enjoy the fruits of their labors of love.

Equality For All!

Even if you are not gay or bi-sexual, you may still believe in equal rights for same sex couples. Let your voice be heard, make your vote count, and go to the below link to sign a petition which is fighting for same sex marriage rights. I did it, it's easy, only takes a few seconds, but could make a World of difference!

http://www.MillionForMarriage.org

April Post...

It just occured to me that April is coming to a close, and I have yet to post in nearly a month. So, here's April's post, as some how, I don't invision visiting this space until May.

The last month or so has been a bit of a blurr.... I'm not quite sure when or how or why. I've floated through days seemingly without a hitch, at least not one I have allowed to weigh heavy. I've laughed, way more than I've cried, and I've trailed fun more than burdens have followed me. So, maybe that is why the last month has sped on by .... because...

I am happy, really and truly happy!